HOW TO WIN CHILD CUSTODY
By admin | December 17, 2007
If you are worried about how to win child custody, there are a few things that you should think about. Take a step back and remember that it is about the child, not hurting your spouse because they hurt you and you want to get back at them. You should also remember that child custody is not a battle to ‘win’ it is a courts determination on where the child will live, which is in the best interest of the child.
Most people who are worried and planning their steps on how to win child custody during a nasty divorce are usually doing the things that they are because they are trying to get back at a spouse. They are not thinking of their child, they are thinking about sticking it to their spouse. All parents have a right to be a parent and no one has the right to take another parent’s rights away. They might not be the best parent at times but they are a parent. If the two of you cannot get along, that is your own problem and you shouldn’t bring the children into the situation.
If you are doing and saying bad things about your spouse as your ploy in how to win child custody, you should think about the pain that you are causing. Think about how you would feel if it was happening to you. You are hurting your spouse because they have the right to be a parent. You are also hurting your child. It isn’t healthy for a child to grow up without one of the parents in their life. It is not a matter of if you are capable of making it on your own, which is your issue. It is a matter of the fact that the child has an emotional and a physical need to be with both of their parents and if the two parents can no longer be together, the child should suffer as little as possible.
It is not about how to win child custody. You will have rights to your child because you are the parent. You should not do and say bad things about another parent to try to get custody. Courts will not tolerate bad behavior of parents fighting and it will be recognized in court and you might get nothing, not even visitation.
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